tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82786777136817472772024-03-13T10:05:58.269+08:00ariemimaUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger81125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-12112470859387340532014-01-01T23:17:00.001+08:002014-01-01T23:17:27.337+08:00New Chapter 2014<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Alhamdulillah.<br/>
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Masih ada disini, setahun yang penuh dengan harapan, cabaran, pahit manis kehidupan telah berlalu. Hari ini bermulalah catatan baru kehidupan.<br/>
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Semoga kami lebih istiqamah dalam perjuangan melakukan kebaikan.<br/>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">In every change that you experience in life, there will be times when you’ll wonder if you can endure.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #454545;">But you’ll learn that facing each difficulty one by one isn't so hard.</span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">It’s when you don’t deal with a situation that if sometimes comes back to confront you again.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">Changes are sometimes very painful,</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">but they teach us that we can endure</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">and that we can become stronger.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">Everything that comes into your life has a purpose, but the outcome is in your hands by the action you take.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">Be wise with your life,</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">be willing to endure,</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #454545;">and always be willing to face life’s challenges .</span></span></span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-6622410355972071392012-11-07T15:53:00.001+08:002013-11-20T17:49:10.441+08:00Looking at the greener grass<div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml">
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">It's been a long hiatus since. Wishing everyday will be warmer instead numb coldness. Just to mark another step to improvement this year, I don't wanna miss to put the sweet memory of getting our keys to our very first own house.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Keys collected on 5 Nov 2012, and inspection was done within the same day. Measurements for grills and curtains taken right after the inspection. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Mind that it was all accomplished all by myself. Phew.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Well, that remind me to compiled all the sweats, tears and hard work along the way to reach this stage. Will definitely come again... till then.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">XOXO</span><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-64569863648078744662012-09-25T18:09:00.000+08:002013-11-20T17:50:08.784+08:0025 September<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Alhamdulillah. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Sangat bersyukur kerana tahun ini sekali lagi aku berjumpa dengan 25 September, again
with my best Other Half. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Dear Arie,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">As we walk
this journey from beginning to end, I’m glad I have my true love and best
friend by my side.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">With love,<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Janda Safe and Sound";"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Mima</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-30755844132076800192012-06-20T16:55:00.000+08:002013-11-20T17:50:56.466+08:00Turning 30 : 30 things every woman should have & should know<br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">In 1997,<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; padding: 0in;">Glamour</span></i><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>magazine published a story titled "<a href="http://www.glamour.com/magazine/2007/02/things-women-should-have-and-know-by-30" style="outline: medium none;" target="_hplink"><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #ba72ba; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none;">30 Things Every Woman Should Have and Should Know by the Time She's 30.</span></a>"
The list, written by<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/pamela-redmond-satran" style="outline: medium none;" target="_hplink"><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #ba72ba; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none;">Pamela Redmond Satran</span></a>, was so popular that women started
emailing it around, misattributing it to various female luminaries including
Maya Angelou and Hillary Clinton. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">Noting what a phenomenon it had become, the
editors of<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Things-Every-Woman-Should-Have/dp/1401324142" style="outline: medium none;" target="_hplink"><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #ba72ba; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none;">Glamour</span></i><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #ba72ba; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none;"> </span></span><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #ba72ba; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none;">created a book around it</span></a>, featuring essays from (mostly)
famous women on each of the items on the list. The book, released today,
includes meditations from Katie Couric on work and love, Portia de Rossi on
accepting your body, and one from the list's original author, who is also a<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/pamela-redmond-satran" style="outline: medium none;" target="_hplink"><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #ba72ba; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none;">Huffington Post blogger</span></a>, on<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/24/how-to-live-alone-turning-30_n_1447304.html?ref=women" style="outline: medium none;" target="_hplink"><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #ba72ba; padding: 0in; text-decoration: none;">how to live alone</span></a>.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;"><br /></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">Because the list still makes us so,<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; padding: 0in;">so</span></i><span class="apple-converted-space"> </span>happy, we asked<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; padding: 0in;">Glamour</span></i>'s
permission to reprint it here:<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><b><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #333333; padding: 0in;">By 30, you should have ...<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">1. One old boyfriend you can
imagine going back to and one who reminds you of how far you’ve come.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">2. A decent piece of furniture not
previously owned by anyone else in your family.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">3. Something perfect to wear if
the employer or man of your dreams wants to see you in an hour.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">4. A purse, a suitcase, and an
umbrella you’re not ashamed to be seen carrying.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">5. A youth you’re content to move
beyond.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">6. A past juicy enough that you’re
looking forward to retelling it in your old age.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">7. The realization that you are
actually going to have an old age -- and some money set aside to help fund it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">8. An email address, a voice
mailbox, and a bank account -- all of which nobody has access to but you.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">9. A résumé that is not even the
slightest bit padded.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">10. One friend who always makes
you laugh and one who lets you cry.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">11. A set of screwdrivers, a
cordless drill, and a black lace bra.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">12. Something ridiculously
expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">13. The belief that you deserve
it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">14. A skin-care regimen, an
exercise routine, and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life
that don’t get better after 30.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">15. A solid start on a satisfying
career, a satisfying relationship, and all those other facets of life that do
get better.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;"><br />
<b><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; padding: 0in;">By 30, you should know ...<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">1. How to fall in love without
losing yourself.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">2. How you feel about having kids.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">3. How to quit a job, break up
with a man, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">4. When to try harder and when to
walk away.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">5. How to kiss in a way that
communicates perfectly what you would and wouldn’t like to happen next.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">6. The names of the secretary of
state, your great-grandmothers, and the best tailor in town.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">7. How to live alone, even if you
don’t like to.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">8. Where to go -- be it your best
friend’s kitchen table or a yoga mat -- when your soul needs soothing.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">9. That you can’t change the
length of your legs, the width of your hips, or the nature of your parents.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">10. That your childhood may not
have been perfect, but it’s over.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">11. What you would and wouldn’t do
for money or love.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white; line-height: 15.75pt; margin: 0in 0in 11.25pt; text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">12. That nobody gets away with
smoking, drinking, doing drugs, or not flossing for very long.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">13. Who you can trust, who you
can’t, and why you shouldn’t take it personally.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">14. Not to apologize for something
that isn’t your fault.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">15. Why they say life begins at 30<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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What's on your personal list of things to have and know -- and possibly do --
before turning 30?<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #333333; padding: 0in;">List excerpted from</span></i><span class="apple-converted-space"><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #333333; padding: 0in;"> </span></i></span><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #333333; padding: 0in;">Glamour's</span></i><span class="apple-converted-space"><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #333333; padding: 0in;"> </span></i></span><i><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; color: #333333; padding: 0in;"><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Things-Every-Woman-Should-Have/dp/1401324142" style="outline: medium none;" target="_hplink"><span style="color: #ba72ba; text-decoration: none;">"Thirty Things Every Woman Should Have and
Should Know By The Time She's 30."</span></a></span></i><span style="color: #333333;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="color: #333333;">Read and excerpt from the book<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><b><span style="border: 1pt none windowtext; padding: 0in;"><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/24/how-to-live-alone-turning-30_n_1447304.html" style="outline: medium none;" target="_hplink"><span style="color: #ba72ba; text-decoration: none;">here</span></a>.<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></span></span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-56968737622465956312012-01-24T04:45:00.001+08:002012-01-24T04:45:56.603+08:00Menunggumu<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4do7A0sxgm4&feature=youtube_gdata_player">Watch "chrisye - menunggumu" on YouTube</a></p> <br/> <div style='clear: both; text-align: center; font-size: xx-small;'>Published with Blogger-droid v2.0.4</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-15379453775127080322011-12-14T17:11:00.001+08:002013-11-20T17:51:44.208+08:00Hatiku di Kinabalu<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Time can be funny.
And weird. Everything can change in just a blink of an eye. After that, nothing
is going to be same again, ever. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Destiny.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Love.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Courage.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><o:p></o:p></span>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Faith.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">I missed Sabah so
much. But i always understand that my place is no longer there. Here I am standing strongly next to my
husband, thousands KM away from my beloved hometown. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">To love him, always.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">To understand him with my heart, always.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">To support him more, always.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">To be kind to him, always.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">
</span><div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">To cheer him up, always.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">
</span><div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">To become his strength, always.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">
</span><div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">To become a shoulder to lean on if needed, always.</span></div>
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<o:p></o:p></span><div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">My darling husband,</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span>
<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">I've never sing Sabahan song to you right? I wish to dedicate this song. Please remember this and engrave it
in your heart, because I hope you will love me as much as I do love you, always.</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><o:p></o:p></span>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">"Tinggi-tinggi
gunung kinabalu,</span></div>
<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Tinggi lagi sayang sama kamu,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Biru-biru hujung Kinabalu,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Tengok dari jauh, hati saya rindu."</span><br />
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<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">With lots of love.</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-71469640934367770272011-11-21T21:46:00.001+08:002011-11-21T22:10:37.865+08:00Rock Kapak - Kenangan zaman membesarI bet most of us must have their sweet memories through their journey as a teenagers. Well, for me tak ada yang lebih indah daripada kenangan membesar sebagai salah seorang yang born in 80's. For those who agreed with me, jom layan few of lagu kapak hehehe layaannn....<br />
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Sekadar yang teringat....Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-55883967207716041642011-10-23T22:56:00.001+08:002011-10-23T22:56:33.585+08:00Ayam Penyet - Sunway Piramid<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Sesi Jalan jalan cari makan di hujung minggu kali ini bertempat di Sunway Piramid. Shopping malls that offers U a lot - LOT of eating place. <br/>
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Kerana kesuntukan masa dan kemalasan tahap mega, pilihan jatuh pada restoran yg ada didepan mata - ayat apakah.<br/>
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Menu wajib adalah ayam penyet. Kami order Sup Rawon tp dh abis. Cis. Dapatla Sup Kuah Bakso sahaja. Bersyukurlah nak. Tapi yg penting harus gembira stlh minum Soda Gembira hahaha<br/>
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Ini pulak Jus Alpukat (Avokado) yg lemak berkrim terlebih lemak. Menghabiskan segelas Jus ini adalah bersamaan dgn harus berjogging 3 hari.<br/>
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Ok tk mau cakap banyak, ada timbunan pakaian tak sabar2 untuk dikemas rapi. Senang cerita, boleh tahanla. Bagi markah utk sambal ayam penyet.<br/>
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Gendang gendut tali kecapi,<br/>
Kenyang perut senang hati.<br/>
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Sekian siaran mlm ini.<br/><p style='font-size: xx-small' align='right'>posted from <a href='https://market.android.com/details?id=pl.przemelek.android.blogger'>Bloggeroid</a></p></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-3230055249813071632011-10-15T01:01:00.000+08:002011-10-15T01:01:46.771+08:00Sayangkan suami<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"></span><br />
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Suami hanyalah tetamu</span></h3>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saya berpendapat kebanyakan masalah yang sering melanda rumahtangga berpunca daripada skap wanita sendiri yang terlalu sayangkan suami, sanggup mengabdikan diri asalkan suami sayang, walaupun ada kalanya boleh menjerat diri.''</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Demikian cerita Marlisya dalam e-melnya.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Bertambah gigil bila ustaz kata syurga di bawah tapak kaki suami, maka isteri jadi lebih takut, taat membabi buta tanpa mengira sama ada suami itu penzina, peminum, kaki pukul dan tak bertanggungjawab, hingga mereka lupa masa depan sendiri. Pada saya isteri seperti itu hanya membodohkan diri sendiri."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Kebanyakan suami berpendapat kasih sayangnya setinggi gunung, melimpah ruah sehingga boleh dikongsi ramai wanita yang menjadi isteri-isteri ataupun kekasih. Kerana itulah saya berpendapat suami adalah tetamu dalam kehidupan saya. Suami boleh datang dan pergi sesuka hatinya. Hari ini dia boleh sayangkan kita esok lusa dia boleh berubah dan mencintai orang lain pula."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Jadi nasihat saya kepada isteri berpada-padalah memberi cinta, kasih dan sayang kepada suami, janganlah sampai menghambakan diri. Kerana jika bercerai suami tetap dipanggil sebagai bekas suami, sudah tiada hubungan lagi dengan kita. Ketika itu jika nasib kurang baik, anak-anak pun dia buat-buat tak kenal kerana tak mahu bertanggungjawab."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Demikian juga halnya dengan anak-anak yang saya ibaratkan juga sebagai tetamu. Sewaktu kecil kita jaga, didik dan membesarkan mereka. Itu tanggungjawab kita, tetapi setelah berkahwin, mereka ada keluarga sendiri, akhirnya kita semakin jauh daripada hidup mereka, hanya sesekali mereka datang menjengok kita ibarat tetamu. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Memberi kasih sayang, cinta kepada manusia biarlah berpada-pada, kecuali kepada Allah. Ada isteri terlalu fanatik mencintai suami hingga sanggup mengabaikan diri sendiri. Pada saya itu isteri bodoh."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Saya bercakap dari pengalaman sendiri. Pernah 20 tahun dulu suami saya jatuh cinta dengan seorang janda dan bercadang untuk berkahwin. Janda itu kawan baik saya. Bila berita tersebut tersebar saya telefon ibu janda itu dan nasihatkan beliau supaya izinkan anaknya berkahwin."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Ketika itu saya ada dua orang anak. Tetapi saya setitik air mata pun tak tumpah kerana peristiwa itu. Rasanya tak berbaloi saya nak menangis. Sambil menolong suami memasukkan pakaian dalam beg, saya kata padanya; ''Saya reda awak kahwin dengan wanita itu sekiranya dia lebih baik daripada saya. Mungkin juga Allah nak pertemukan saya dengan lelaki yang lebih baik daripada awak.'' Agaknya kata-kata saya pedas, akhirnya dia tak jadi kahwin, mungkin dia fikir jika saya dirceraikan dia takut saya berkahwin dengan lelaki lain yang mungkin lebih baik daripadanya. Dia jadi cemburu.</span></div>
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<crosshead><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Kini setelah 30 tahun berkahwin dan ada tiga orang anak, kesimpulannya saya rasa tidak perlu mencintai suami 100 peratus, sebaliknya saya jadi isteri yang mementingkan diri sendiri. Saya berkira dalam soal kewangan walaupun 80 peratus perbelanjaan rumah, saya yang sumbang seperti duit pasar, termasuklah duit pengasuh anak ketika mereka kecil dan duit tuisyen setelah mereka besar. Saya reda, biarlah Allah beri keberkatan kepada saya."</span></crosshead><br />
<crosshead><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></crosshead></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Nasihat saya isteri jangan bergantung 100 peratus pada suami, buat simpanan sendiri, jangan buka akaun bank simpanan bersama, jangan beritahu jumlah duit kita, jangan jadi penjamin kalau suami nak pinjam bank. Kerana kalau ada simpanan sendiri anda tak takut jika suami buat hal, kerana kita pun boleh letak jawatan jadi isteri dengan hati tenang."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Nasihat emak penuh berkias kepada saya ketika berkahwin dulu, katanya; ''kalau sayang sangat suami jangan tidur dalam perut suami.'' Puas saya fikir apa maksut emak rupanya emak pesan jangan terlalu percayakan suami walaupun kita sayang dia. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ayah pulak ketika saya kahwin dia hadiahkan sebilah kapak kecil (yang saya simpan sampai kini). Ia sebagai simbolik supaya saya jadi isteri yang tabah, cekal dan berani mempertahankan diri dari segala dugaan dan ancaman. Sungguh dalam makna dan nasihat emak ayah kepada saya."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Jika ada masa saya pergi melancong keluar negara, ke Eropah, Korea dan China atau ke mana sahaja saya teringin. Hati saya tenang di samping anak-anak yang masih menuntut, sebab lepas kahwin saya lambat dapat anak. Kini suami semakin sayangkan saya. Mungkin dia sedar kesilapannya dan merasa rugi kalau ceraikan saya."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Kepada isteri-isteri yang masih terperangkap dengan masalah dan perangai suami, kerana kesilapan sendiri terlalu mencintainya sepenuh hati, bawalah bersabar. Anda masih belum terlambat untuk membetulkan keadaan demi masa depan anda. Dekatkan diri dengan Allah semoga anda mendapat ketenangan dan ganjaranNya."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Kepada ibu bapa yang ada anak perempuan yang akan atau sudah berkahwin titiplah nasihat agar mereka dapat menempuh hidup ini dengan hati terbuka, berani dan cukup bersedia menghadapi masalah rumahtangga. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika ada anak lelaki nasihat mereka supaya jadi suami bertanggungjawab, kerana kebanyakan punca keruntuhan rumahtangga hari ini adalah kerana kaum lelaki tidak tahu jalankan tanggungjawab seperti yang diamanahkan oleh Allah."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">'<b><i>'Ingatlah wahai suami semua, hidup anda dan kita semua bukan di dunia ini sahaja, akhirat kelak kita akan mendapat balasan setimpal dengan apa yang kita lakukan semasa hayat kita. "</i></b></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Bagi saya hidup ini terlalu singkat kerana itu wanita perlu mencari sendiri kebahagian, jangan tunggu orang lain membahagiakan kita dan lebih penting jangan perbodohkan diri untuk keselesaan orang lain, walaupun suami sendiri."</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Sebaiknya isteri juga mesti mencari keselesaan hidup di dunia dan di akhirat.'' Pesanan Marlisya menutup cerita.</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kredit to : <a href="http://www.utusan.com.my/utusan/info.asp?y=2011&dt=0327&pub=Utusan_Malaysia&sec=Keluarga&pg=ke_04.htm">Utusan</a></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-55451861244792369082011-09-24T00:00:00.001+08:002011-09-24T00:00:55.044+08:00Kesabaran seorang isteri<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Pernah tidak kamu rasai, pedih menghambat hati. <br/>
Seperti luka yg disimbah cuka.<br/>
Seperti kaca yg menghiris muka.<br/>
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Ya Rabbi,<br/>
Dalam setiap dugaan yg Engkau berikan buat para isteri,<br/>
kurniakankanlah mereka kesabaran.<br/>
Kerna kesakitan apapun yg mereka diuji,<br/>
tetap akan tabah mereka hadapi,<br/>
demi untuk belahan hati mereka iaitu suami.<br/>
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Hargailah isteri.<br/>
Kerana isteri itu yg akan selalu berada di sisi kamu.<br/>
Kerana isteri itu yg akan selalu berkorban utk kamu.<br/>
Kerana isteri itu faham Syurga baginya hanyalah dgn keredhaan kamu.<br/>
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Ya, kamu. <br/>
Suami.<br/>
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<br/><p style='font-size: xx-small' align='right'>posted from Bloggeroid</p></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-46975467986757860692011-07-18T18:28:00.000+08:002011-07-18T18:28:23.138+08:00Hutang Suami Kepada IsteriTerlalu besar tanggungjawab sebuah rumah tangga. Artikel dari web iluvislam hari ini agak menyentuh hati. Dugaan kehidupan dunia moden, entah berapa ramai daripada kita yang berjaya mengharunginya.<br />
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<div style="line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Setelah beberapa tahun saya menjadi pengamal undang-undang dan berkongsi ilmu dalam beberapa 'ceramah', isu yang selalunya timbul apabila membicarakan tentang poligami adalah isu mengenai nafkah .<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Dalam sebuah kuliah yang saya hadiri, ada seorang muslimat bertanya, "Puan,boleh tak kita mencuri duit dari poket suami untuk kegunaan keperluan rumahtangga?".<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Walaupun saya pasti majoriti anda sudah maklum akan jawapannya, disini saya sekadar ingin bertanya pihak suami, "Kenapa harus isteri mencuri haknya sendiri yang tidak kamu tunaikan?".<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">Dari Muawiyah al-Qusyairi, berkata</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">:<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">"Saya datang kepada Rasulullah S.A.W lalu saya bertanya, bagaimana pandanganmu Ya Rasulullah tentang isteri-isteri kami?" Sabdanya: "Berilah mereka makan dari makanan yang kamu makan, berilah mereka pakaian dari pakaian yang kamu pakai, janganlah kamu pukul mereka dan jangan pula kamu buruk-burukkan mereka (H.R Abu Dawud)</span></em><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Ayat-ayat dan hadith di atas menjelaskan bahawa setiap suami bertanggungjawabmemberi makanan, pakaian kepada isterinya sesuai dengan kemampuannya. Suami tidak boleh memberi makanan dan pakaian kepada isterinya lebih buruk daripada apa yang dimakan dan dipakai suaminya. Begitu juga kadar makan dan pakai yang menjadi hak isteri diberikan mengikut kadar yang mampu diberikan oleh suaminya. Di dalam hal ini isteri tidak boleh meminta sesuatu yang di luar kemampuan suaminya. Akan tetapi sekiranya si suami mampu memberikannya lebih tetapi tidak diberikan maka dalam situasi ini si isteri dibenarkan mengambil harta suaminya seperti sabda Rasulullah S.A.W: <o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">Dari Aisyah r.a berkata</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">:<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><em style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">Sesungguhnya Hindun datang kepada rasulullah lalu bertanya: "Wahai Rasulullah, Abu Sufyan adalah orang yang kikir dan tidak mahu memberikan kepadaku belanja yang cukup untukku dan anakku, sehingga terpaksa aku ambil dari hartanya tanpa pengetahuannya". Lalu Baginda bersabda: "Ambillah sekadar cukup untuk dirimu dan anakmu dengan wajar". (H.R Bukhari dan Muslim.<o:p></o:p></span></em></span></div><div style="line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
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Makanan.</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">ii. Bahan-bahan keperluan dapur seperti rempah-ratus (bawang, beras/tepung, minyak masak, garam, gula, asam termasuk lauk-pauk dan sebagainya).</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">iii. Pembantu rumah bagi isteri yang kebiasaannya mempunyai pembantu.</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">iv. Pakaian.</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">v. Alat-alat pembersih badan ( sabun, syampu, dan lain-lain )</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">vi. Perkakas-perkakas rumah seperti perkakas bilik air, perkakas bilik tidur dan sebagainya</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: #3366ff; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">vii. Tempat tinggal (rumah).</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">(An-Nawawi: 450-461)</span></strong></span><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Nafkah suami terhadap isteri yang tidak terlangsai itu akan tetap dikira sebagai hutang sekiranya isterinya tidak redha.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Mengikut Hukum Syara' isteri yang taat dan tidak disabitkan nusyuz oleh Mahkamah Syariah berhak mendapat nafkah daripada suaminya.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><strong style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">*Tertakluk kepada Hukum Syarak dan pengesahan mahkamah, seseorang isteri tidaklah berhak mendapat nafkah apabila dia</span></strong><span class="apple-converted-space"><b><i><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;"> </span></i></b></span><em><b><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">nusyuz</span></b></em><span class="apple-converted-space"><b><i><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;"> </span></i></b></span><strong><span style="border: none windowtext 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; mso-border-alt: none windowtext 0in; padding: 0in;">atau enggan dengan tidak berpatutan menurut kemahuan atau perintah suaminya iaitu antara lain;<o:p></o:p></span></strong></div><div style="line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0in;"><br />
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Tetapi andai isteri tidak redha, persoalan nafkah ini akan tetap dibangkitkan kembali ketika hari penghisaban diakhirat kelak.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt; outline-color: initial; outline-style: initial; outline-width: 0px;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Kepada para suami sekiranya nafkah si isteri tersebut sengaja diabaikan, bawalah bertaubat dan langsaikanlah semula hak-hak si isteri mengikut kemampuan anda. Sudah tentu anda tidak mahu disekat daripada menjejakkan kaki ke syurga semata-mata kerana hutang anda yang tidak terlangsai kepada si isteri. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div style="line-height: 13.95pt; margin-bottom: 11.6pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 11.6pt;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Wallahualam.<o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p>{<a href="http://www.iluvislam.com/keluarga/perkahwinan/3127-hutang-suami-kepada-isteri.html">Sumber</a>} </o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-6172560433013596332011-07-15T13:02:00.001+08:002011-07-15T14:09:34.865+08:00Zam Zam Restaurant, Shah Alam<div style="text-align: justify;">Malam semalam merupakan edisi Jalan2 cari makan - mode suami isteri yg kebosanan dgn masakan sendiri hehe</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Destinasi adalah Shah Alam, disebabkan ada urusan tak rasmi kt Sek. 8 td, kami pun terus ronda2 kwsn sekitar cari restoran. Misi adalah makanan bkn ruji (apakah ayat ini), ceh.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Sampai ke area blkg Plaza Masalam, nampaknya ada byk tempat makan. Terus teruja nak try Arabic Food. Kami pun apalagi, terjah restoran ini :)</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Interior punya ambience quiet nice, ok la. Nampak brwarna-warni dan selesa, tapi mungkin sebab tak ramai org masa ni. Tak tau la pulak mcmmana keadaannya bila penuh. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Arghh tk reti la pulak adjust gambar kt bloggeroid ni, eh nanti layan gambar kemudian la. Cuma nk bgtau, overall experience boleh tahan la. Food portion agak kurang brbanding restoran Arab yg kt USJ Subang, price pun consider average la. Emm bolehla utk kami yg nkkan kelainan sekali sekala ni, tp abis licin mknan yg kami order hahaha sbb dua org ni laaaapar sgt :)</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Kami order Lamb Mandy ngan Lamb Kabsa, minum Jus Oren ngan Jus Tembikai. Other Half komen rasa kambing yg nyum2 t u mmg kena dgn tekak dia. Lembut & tk berbau, eh mau mntak resepi la Chef, boleh? Haha</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Ada pillar kat tgh2 restoran, nmpknya mcm ada area utk buffet jgak. Tapi mmg restoran ni ada cater utk event/function. So sesapa yg duk area sini, next time maybe leh consider k. Ceh promote la pulak.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Okayla, layan gambar yg tk seberapa. Sekian laporan makan2. Next time kita siarkn aktiviti lain pulak. Wassalam.</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Pesanan penaja:</div><div style="text-align: justify;">Gambar yg last sekali tu saja tempek muka bahagia Other Half yg puas hati dpt mkn lamb pastu dpt relax pulak kt massage chair</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br />
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</div><div style="font-size: xx-small; text-align: right;">posted from Bloggeroid</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8278677713681747277.post-48898725545743921852011-06-05T00:47:00.001+08:002011-06-05T00:47:56.946+08:00First Anniversary<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Typing from Seremban :)<br/>
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Our precious one year together.<br/>
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Qayyum terkunci dalam kereta hari ni, gara2 tahap kebijakan kami yg agak sukar ditandingi. <br/>
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Nasib baik ada satu pintu tak terkunci, dapatla amik Qayyum keluar, Alhamdulillah.<br/>
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Hati rasa macam nak pecah masa Qayyum dalam dakapan balik.<br/>
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I don't really get why I always cry whenever I watched a movie. That is why sometimes I am really particular of what kind of story to choose.<br/>
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A father and a daughter.<br/>
He lose her.<br/>
And only me among all who watched, could understand how it feel.<br/>
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The real painful feeling. Of losing someone you loved so much.<br/>
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How I am sorry to you my love, my Other Half.<br/>
But I miss dad all my life.<br/>
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Silence.<br/>
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Alhamdulillah, good to be back to Malaysia, where I can HALAL food and sign everywhere ;)<br/>
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I missed my airport life, sometimes, or everytime I step back to the GL. <br/>
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It's not easy to let go at one point. <br/>
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But life must go on, it does not have to stop when it is not the time yet.<br/>
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I love to travel, but not that much this time due to I am alone in this trip, I miss my Other Half. <br/>
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Thank God I still enjoyed my serene take off and touch down moment on board, the most precious feeling that is lasted lifetime in my memory.<br/>
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I need my sleep now, the missing feeling start killing me. <br/>
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Tak sempat nk bg ubat, dia dh tido. Penat keja overnite :(<br/>
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Balik dr keja, encik suami masih nk tido, emmm demam sungguh ni, nk bersuara pun tk larat :(<br/>
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Jap lg dia dh nk kena pi keja, tk sampai hati sungguh tgk org sakit kena berkhidmat utk SRHS mlm ni :(<br/>
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</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jangan diperbesarkan nanti mereka terasa hati.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">"Apalah perempuan, tak pandai masak siapa nak kahwin dengan awak!" Begitulah kata rakan sejawat lelaki pada seorang anak dara, juga rakan sejawat kami.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Maka jawaplah si gadis ayu itu yang dia tidak sempat belajar memasak sebab dari kecil tidak digalakkan keluarga sebaliknya di suruh menumpukan perhatian pada pelajaran saja.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Setelah tinggal di asrama, peluang pulang ke rumah terhad dan tidak sempat turun ke dapur membantu ibunya.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Habis sekarang kenapa tidak belajar?" Tanya sang lelaki lagi dengan penuh semangat.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">''Sedang belajarlah ni tetapi selain sibuk dengan kerjaya saya juga sibuk belajar agama, jadi belajar memasak tetap tidak diutamakan!" Begitu jawab si gadis yang membuatkan lelaki tadi menggeleng-geleng kepala.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Baginya tidak sempurna seorang wanita jika tidak tahu memasak. Wanita sepatutnya buat begitu juga.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Syarat utama menjadi suami mesti boleh menjadi imam.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Walau ada yang kata, jika itu syaratnya bermakna makin ramai wanita yang hidup bujang seumur hidup.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Lelaki meletakkan kebolehan wanita di dapur sebagai perkara utama dan ungkapan hendak memikat suami, perlu pikat seleranya sering diguna pakai.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Tidak kiralah jika wanita itu berpelajaran atau berjawatan tinggi dan penyumbang utama kewangan dalam rumahtangganya.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Sekarang bukan asing lagi gaji isteri lebih tinggi daripada suami.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Namun kedudukan suami sebagai raja tidak pernah dilupa walau dia tidak mengambil inisiatif mempelajari ilmu menjadi imam.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ilmu bermain video game di komputer mereka rasa lebih perlu.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kalau tidak tahu memasak disuruh belajar dan sesudah belajar perlu handal.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika handal bukan setakat masak untuk keluarga sendiri, kalau boleh perlu boleh memasak untuk tiga pasukan bola. Begitulah standard yang telah ditetapkan.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Bolehkah kita meletakkan undang-undang itu kepada lelaki juga? Kalau tidak pandai jadi imam, belajarlah.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mula-mula jadi imam kepada keluarga sendiri, sudah terror boleh mengimam satu taman perumahan juga.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">"Sibuk suruh kita handal memasak, mereka tu bolehkah jadi imam?" Dengus teman wanita yang lain.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Betul juga ya? Berapa kerat lelaki yang menjadikan sembahyang jemaah di rumah bersama anak isteri sebagai agenda utama, selain keperluan memenuhi pelbagai seleranya?</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Maka bertanyalah wanita kini kepada beberapa lelaki tentang kebolehan yang satu ini.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ternyata ramai yang menjawab tidak confident menjadi imam sebab takut bacaan al-Fatihah tidak sempurna, salah tajwid atau pun dia merasakan isterinya lebih handal.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ada yang kata lebih elok dia dan isteri sembahyang sendiri-sendiri.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ada juga menjawab, rasa kelakar pula apabila dirinya yang rugged menjadi imam.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Isu ini sepatutnya kita beratkan sepertimana masyarakat memberatkan wanita perlu pandai memasak jika mahu bersuami.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Lelaki juga harus boleh menjadi imam supaya kewibawaan mereka sebagai ketua keluarga tidak goyah atau menjadi mangsa 'queen control'.</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kalau tidak pandai, belajarlah sekarang. Jika wanita disuruh belajar, apa salahnya lelaki!</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><a href="http://iluvislam.com/">{sumber}</a></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br />
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My other Half<br/>
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