Goodbye Krabi!

Alhamdulillah, good to be back to Malaysia, where I can HALAL food and sign everywhere ;)

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KK trip 23/3/2011

I missed my airport life, sometimes, or everytime I step back to the GL.

It's not easy to let go at one point.

But life must go on, it does not have to stop when it is not the time yet.

I love to travel, but not that much this time due to I am alone in this trip, I miss my Other Half.

Thank God I still enjoyed my serene take off and touch down moment on board, the most precious feeling that is lasted lifetime in my memory.

I need my sleep now, the missing feeling start killing me.

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Bila The Other Half demam

Pagi-pagi dh keluar pi keja, encik suami pulak baru blk dr keja.

DEMAM.

Tak sempat nk bg ubat, dia dh tido. Penat keja overnite :(

Balik dr keja, encik suami masih nk tido, emmm demam sungguh ni, nk bersuara pun tk larat :(

Jap lg dia dh nk kena pi keja, tk sampai hati sungguh tgk org sakit kena berkhidmat utk SRHS mlm ni :(








Rindu senyuman ini.

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Salahkah bila isteri 'kurang' pandai memasak?

Kalau perempuan tidak boleh memasak, dikutuk dan disuruh belajar. Kalau lelaki tak boleh jadi imam kita kata okay saja.

Jangan diperbesarkan nanti mereka terasa hati.

"Apalah perempuan, tak pandai masak siapa nak kahwin dengan awak!" Begitulah kata rakan sejawat lelaki pada seorang anak dara, juga rakan sejawat kami.

Maka jawaplah si gadis ayu itu yang dia tidak sempat belajar memasak sebab dari kecil tidak digalakkan keluarga sebaliknya di suruh menumpukan perhatian pada pelajaran saja.

Setelah tinggal di asrama, peluang pulang ke rumah terhad dan tidak sempat turun ke dapur membantu ibunya.

''Habis sekarang kenapa tidak belajar?" Tanya sang lelaki lagi dengan penuh semangat.

''Sedang belajarlah ni tetapi selain sibuk dengan kerjaya saya juga sibuk belajar agama, jadi belajar memasak tetap tidak diutamakan!" Begitu jawab si gadis yang membuatkan lelaki tadi menggeleng-geleng kepala.

Baginya tidak sempurna seorang wanita jika tidak tahu memasak. Wanita sepatutnya buat begitu juga.

Syarat utama menjadi suami mesti boleh menjadi imam.

Walau ada yang kata, jika itu syaratnya bermakna makin ramai wanita yang hidup bujang seumur hidup.

Lelaki meletakkan kebolehan wanita di dapur sebagai perkara utama dan ungkapan hendak memikat suami, perlu pikat seleranya sering diguna pakai.

Tidak kiralah jika wanita itu berpelajaran atau berjawatan tinggi dan penyumbang utama kewangan dalam rumahtangganya.

Sekarang bukan asing lagi gaji isteri lebih tinggi daripada suami.

Namun kedudukan suami sebagai raja tidak pernah dilupa walau dia tidak mengambil inisiatif mempelajari ilmu menjadi imam.

Ilmu bermain video game di komputer mereka rasa lebih perlu.

Kalau tidak tahu memasak disuruh belajar dan sesudah belajar perlu handal.

Jika handal bukan setakat masak untuk keluarga sendiri, kalau boleh perlu boleh memasak untuk tiga pasukan bola. Begitulah standard yang telah ditetapkan.

Bolehkah kita meletakkan undang-undang itu kepada lelaki juga? Kalau tidak pandai jadi imam, belajarlah.

Mula-mula jadi imam kepada keluarga sendiri, sudah terror boleh mengimam satu taman perumahan juga.

"Sibuk suruh kita handal memasak, mereka tu bolehkah jadi imam?" Dengus teman wanita yang lain.

Betul juga ya? Berapa kerat lelaki yang menjadikan sembahyang jemaah di rumah bersama anak isteri sebagai agenda utama, selain keperluan memenuhi pelbagai seleranya?

Maka bertanyalah wanita kini kepada beberapa lelaki tentang kebolehan yang satu ini.

Ternyata ramai yang menjawab tidak confident menjadi imam sebab takut bacaan al-Fatihah tidak sempurna, salah tajwid atau pun dia merasakan isterinya lebih handal.

Ada yang kata lebih elok dia dan isteri sembahyang sendiri-sendiri.

Ada juga menjawab, rasa kelakar pula apabila dirinya yang rugged menjadi imam.

Isu ini sepatutnya kita beratkan sepertimana masyarakat memberatkan wanita perlu pandai memasak jika mahu bersuami.

Lelaki juga harus boleh menjadi imam supaya kewibawaan mereka sebagai ketua keluarga tidak goyah atau menjadi mangsa 'queen control'.

Kalau tidak pandai, belajarlah sekarang. Jika wanita disuruh belajar, apa salahnya lelaki!

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TESTING

My other Half

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Charice Pempengco : Gifted voice

How we often wish that someone will LISTEN to our heart.


Whatever happens, keep your faith, life is full of up and down.

Listen,

To the song here in my heart

A melody I've start

But can't complete

Listen, to the sound from deep within

It's only beginning

To find release

Oh,

the time has come

for my dreams to be heard

They will not be pushed aside and turned

Into your own

all cause you won't

Listen....

[Chorus]

Listen,

I am alone at a crossroads

I'm not at home, in my own home

And I tried and tried

To say whats on my mind

You should have known

Oh,

Now I'm done believing you

You don't know what I'm feeling

I'm more than what, you made of me

I followed the voice

you gave to me

But now I gotta find, my own..

[Chorus]

I don't know where I belong

But I'll be moving on

If you don't....

If you won't....

LISTEN!!!...

To the song here in my heart

A melody I've start

But I will complete

Oh,

Now I'm done believing you

You don't know what I'm feeling

I'm more than what, you made of me

I followed the voice, you think you gave to me

But now I gotta find, my own..

my ownn... 

Understanding Hijab for DUMMIES

(Credit)

May we all gain a valuable lesson, Insha Allah, good to share with our friends & family ;)

Pulihkanlah cinta kita semua

"Hanis pulang lewat hari ini sebab ada banyak kerja di pejabat. Hanis minta maaf sebab terpaksa pulang lewat  dan lambat sediakan makan malam buat abang." Suara ikhlas si isteri meredakan suasana  tatkala si suami juga penat bekerja menanti kepulangan permaisuri ke pangkuan.


"Hanis buatlah kerja. Itu amanah Hanis dengan Allah SWT. Amanah Hanis dengan majikan.  Lagipun abang dah biasa macam ni masa bujang dulu." Si suami pula menyapa lembut lantas mendamaikan petang yang seakan-akan kelam.


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Bebanan kian terasa tatkala pernikahan baru mencecah usia tiga bulan.  Inai di jari juga masih merah . Dia juga tahu amanah mahupun tanggungjawab itu harus dipikul, bukan dilepaskan atau dibiarkan. Setiap orang akan tahu betapa beratnya bebanan sebagai pasangan suami isteri apabila mereka sudah berada di alam tersebut.


Dulu memang tiada perancangan langsung di dalam buku catatan sebelum berkahwin. Hanya yang ada jumlah hantaran, bajet kenduri, kad jemputan, lokasi perkahwinan, mak andam, sewa kanopi, rahsia malam pertama dan lain-lain lagi tanpa tersentuh apatah lagi menyentuh soal tanggungjawab sedangkan perkahwinan itu amanah. Katanya cukup kursus pra-perkahwinan.


"Mulut memang mudah menutur namun apakah akan sepersis perilaku?"


Kita mudah memahami nota-nota cinta di dalam drama bersiri, telenovela, di helaian novel atau cerpen. Sesungguhnya, adakala memang  benar juga apabila sampai kepada babak rumahtangga mithali, rumahtangga kecoh, rumahtangga hancur. Namun, ianya berlalu bagaikan air dan tidak ada muhasabah. Air mata bercucuran kerana terlalu emosi menonton drama kegemaran tetapi kita lupa bahawa kita mungkin akan menghadapi  keadaan yang sama kelak.


Kita ialah jiwa hamba. Jiwa kecil kita ini mudah tersentuh apabila perasaan tidak serasi dengan fitrah. Fitrah manusia normal senang hanyut sekiranya tiada iman sebagai pendinding. Kebal kita bukan kerana kuat atau sihat tubuh badan tetapi kuat iman menahan asakan bak jarum menusuk halus di setiap penjuru. Kadangkala apabila pernikahan terbina bukan kerana cinta kepada Ilahi maka tumbuhlah tunas-tunas lalang menghalang cahaya cinta Ilahi daripada terus menerjah ke sumur hati.


Mulalah timbul bibit-bibit di hati mahu berpisah atau baik hidup membujang. Kita juga lupa apabila sudah berkahwin tiada lagi wangian melekat di badan seperti seawal bercinta dahulu. Kini yang tinggal hanya bau yang tidak menyenangkan lantaran penat bekerja. Kini barulah kita tahu tembelang sebenar pasangan. Si suami bangun lewat tatkala waktu Subuh dan si isteri pulang lewat malam tanpa keizinan.


Memang susah mencari seorang Adam yang terfikir untuk berkahwin supaya mempunyai seorang Hawa yang halal baginya itu mengarah jalan menuju ke Syurga. Kita cuma terfikir kehidupan di dunia sahaja.  Apabila timbul soal perkahwinan ianya hanya berupa material luaran sahaja. Tiada lagi pertimbangan rohani dan tiada lagi soal kebahagiaan si dia, kebebasan si dia atau mengerti tentang si dia. Isteri pula hanya sekadar alat untuk melepaskan tempias nafsu semata-mata.


Kita bukan sahaja hipokrit dengan pasangan  malah bersikap munafiq dengan Allah SWT. Kita mengharapkan si dia sempurna tetapi adakah kita sedar pasangan kita juga menagih kebaikan dan tanggungjawab kita kepada institusi perkahwinan seperti yang kita ikrarkan dulu.


Benar qadha' dan qadar adalah ketentuan daripada Maha Esa. Kita merancang tetapi Allah SWT yang menetukan soal  jodoh, maut, dan rezeki kita. Tidak penting di mana kita bermula tetapi ke mana kita berakhir. Perkahwinan memerlukan komitmen yang tinggi. Ianya umpama mengemudi sebuah kapal yang penuh dengan barangan dagangan untuk di layari di tengah-tengah lautan, ia adalah tanggungjawab. Ingat! Laut pula tidak pernah sunyi dari ombak dan pelayaran tetap diteruskan. Hanya yang tinggal ialah kebijaksanaan komunikasi antara nakhoda dan kelasinya.

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Wahai hati, bersabarlah.

Tuhan beri kita rezeki, dan hanya Dia yang berkuasa mengambilnya semula.

"Demi sesungguhnya! Kami akan menguji kamu dengan sedikit perasaan takut (kepada musuh) dan (dengan merasai) kelaparan, dan (dengan berlakunya) kekurangan dari harta benda dan jiwa serta hasil tanaman. Dan berilah khabar gembira kepada orang-orang yang sabar." - [Al-Baqarah 2:155]"

Bila diuji, bersabarlah wahai hati. Musibah itu datang dalam pelbagai cara, dan merupakan tarbiyah dari Allah bagi mereka yang celik hati & akalnya.

Effortless girl that sounds really me

Welcome February, brought along the cold but friendly rain.

Few days ago, I almost totally lost in touch with my dearest writing space here. I thought, no, i made myself occupied with clutter of small stuff. 

Until I receive an email, that someone really kind dropping a comment here. Nice, thanks guy, whoever you are. You just made me realize that I should keep the perseverance to keep this medium alive, at least from this moment on :) 

Have any one of you all ever heard / read this one inspirational story titled " The important things in life" ?

This is between a philosophy professor and his class, and some items with him for his lesson of the day. The class began, slowly & wordlessly he picked up an empty jar and fill it with rocks, big rocks, and ask his students if the jar was full.

Yes, they agreed it was.

So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. 

Again, yes, they agreed it was.

The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.

He then asked once more if the jar was full. 

The students responded with a unanimous “Yes.”

“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, your children – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter – like your job, your house, your car.

The sand is everything else. The small stuff.”

“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued “there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Never forget to pray & be thankful to God. Play with your children. Take your partner out. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal.

Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

I am pretty sure that I read this somewhere, but I just couldn't recall the source. Sorry :)

Owh ya! my so called 30 days challenge! 

Here they are, let's see how many will make it to my post for today :)

Day 14- A picture of you and your family.

Urmmm this one only part of my family, but I LOVE this picture - my mom was standing right next to me while I was sitting next to my better half.

Day 15- Put your iPod on shuffle: First 10 songs that play.

To be frank, I own no iPod, but almost every time I've given a chance to listen to or sing, I'll pick White Flag from Dido - with no particular reason.

Day 16- Another picture of yourself.

Again?  Okay, this one from my long lost mobile phone, and I missed it dearly.

Day 17- Someone you would want to switch lives with for one day and why?

No one, definitely no one can replace my self. I stand strong most of the time through thick and thin in life, I was meant to be the way I am exactly. I am working to stay the same, with a lot of better accomplishment in my near future. InsyaAllah.

Day 18- Plans/dreams/goals you have.

Babies! I always dreams about having triplets, however...twins will do.

Day 19- Nicknames you have; why do you have them?

Mima. 

Can't really figure out why I got this nick, but I'm sure it's from my late father. But, only real close friends called me by this nick by the way :)

Day 20- Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future.

Haha I don't see myself marrying him for I've already married with him! He will always be the one I want to be with now and for the rest of my life.

Day 21- A picture of something that makes you happy.

There are many things can trigger my happy hormone hahaha so I won't pick one. 

Day 22- What makes you different from everyone else?

I survived many terrible moments, heartbreaking events. But, I never fail to see and realize the bright side of life. Others may be think that I've never done anything important in my life. We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around only great moments. But great moments often catch us unaware - beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one. For that, I'll always be thankful. 

I've learned - that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

Day 13 : A letter to someone who has hurt you recently.

Dear someone,


I pray to Allah SWT for your happiness in this world, however I do hope that if you realize that you did a bad thing by hurting people around you one day, please come back to the right path, so that you will not only gain happiness here, but in the eternal afterworld.


Life is short my friend.
Any blink of eyes you can always lose someone.
Let's surround ourself with faith, kindness and more hope for peace.


You hurt me today, and you don't see that you are hurting yourself as well.

Selamat melancong ke bumi Kangaroo

Cuba teka siapakah yang tidak berjaya menaiki flight ke Perth, Australia?

Day 12 : How you found out about Blog and why you made one.

Like 2 years ago... by one good friend of mine. I was stuck at the Airport, chilled, bored and lonely at that time. She, however, so full of energy, happy and always eager to cheer me up at any situation.


I remember how she struggle with her up and down personal relationship.
I remember how she smile to hide her sadness.
I remember her kindness towards people around her.


And she taught me not to keep every burden buried in heart. In time, it'll all get heavy and heavier, and you'll end up becoming a full of resent human being. 


So I asked her, what do you do? And how do you do it?
She asked me what do I like to do the most.
She notice that I enjoyed reading books, paper, mags etc.
Then she answered : Write about it. All that happened to and around you.
You will then  feel lighter mentally in no time.


That's why I made one, (she taught me how) teehehehe
But I keep that private only to myself. And her of course.
Thanks dear Azraliza, our fond memories together at GL will always be the sweetest moment for me to remember.

Mizz u a lot ;)

Linger

Love is a fire.

But whether it is going to warm your heart,

or burn down your house,

you can never tell.

Day 11 : Another picture of you and your friends.

Friends are special people. We can't pick our family, and we're sorely limited in the number of them at any rate. Society and mores (and often our own conscience) dictate we select a single mate. But our friends can be as diverse and infinite as the adjectives we choose. 

Our friends, in a very real sense, reflect the choices we make in life.

Instead of different words, however, we're stuck with simple adjectives. Close friend. Best friend. Childhood friend. Intimate friend. Trusted friend. Beloved friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.

Friendship can be very beautiful. And it can be very beautifully expressed.

Day 10 : Songs you listen to when you are Happy, Sad, Bored, Hyped, Mad.

If u guys noticed my previous...and previous entry...I love to listen this one particular song..teheehee...if I wanna add a list of songs I listen to, I maybe have only few...that I used to listen for quite sometimes...once in a blue moon..be it happy, sad, bored or mad. Roll on :

I really need to stop now teeheeehee the list can go on and on... Maybe from time to time I will randomly post any song that I used to listen long time ago.


Don't forget, i do not listen to all this song all the time, occasionally yes.


Till then! 

A Lot Like Love - again

I dunno just how much I fell in love with him, but I guess all of us will never know until we try.

Day 09 : Something you’re proud of in the past few days.

Proud is a rare feeling for me. It's just rare.
Just how many times in life we should feel proud? 
We are rarely proud when we are alone.
A person may be proud without being vain.
I still wanna give a better try to earn the right to be proud.


Just one thing for sure at all times :

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Day 08 : Short term goals for this month and why.

To visit our Panel Doctor.


Sounds so not a goal ahaha but yes, that is what I really wanted to do this month. 


A.S.A.P.


Year end approaching and I would love to double check my health status. It is extremely important to me somehow, that I must be in a pink of health while trying to conceive. 


For sure, I am praying hard now that Allah SWT will grant me the miracle and joy of being a mother soon. I always be positive that Allah knows the best for me and Mr. Hubby.


Dear friends,
Pray together with me.

Day 07 : A picture of someone/something that has a big impact on you.

I've always wanted to write. But it's always not easy for me. 


Work. Office.


Work. Home.


Sleep.


Wake up. My lappy was not there.


Excuse.


Work. Again. and again.


I neglect the quest which requires me to write every single day for 30days :(
However, I still determined to complete it hehehe...


What kind of big impact? Attitude? Lifestyle? Something? Someone? 
Eh apa banyak pulak tanda soal ni? Tengok..tanda soal lagi...teeheheehe


I may choose him :

The man whom I hold hand with. My other half.

Mr. Shahriman Bin Ahmad

You made my life whole again.